It’s funny how every time we lose something or something slips through our fingers we tend think that it’s something bad. We never sit and think that this thing might’ve had a negative impact on us or that this person might not have been the right one for us. That’s where our mistake is.
You would actually be pretty amazed if you think about all the times things didn’t go the way you wanted them to, but you still ended up being fine or even better than you were before. It’s the thought that our lives are better when we have something or will be better once we have it that makes us blind to the fact that it’s for the best to not have it.
“Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
We as people always tend to put some sentimental value on the things we have as if they are the things that define us and not we ourselves. How many times have you found yourself worrying for no reason over an object,be it an expensive camera or some other sort of gadget, that you brought with you on a trip? Could you imagine how much more you would’ve enjoyed your vacation if hadn’t spent so much time worrying? That’s when you know something isn’t right and has to change.
I had a camera that I used to bring almost everywhere to vlog with. Since I was always worry about losing it or breaking it I wasn’t able to focus on my vlogs as much as i could’ve. And because it was getting my way so much I decided that it would be best to replace it. I sold it and bought a new one, slightly worse, but at least now I had the chance to focus on what mattered most, my health and the content of my videos.
Overall if you’re in a situation like this, know that even if you need to take a small step back the universe will pave the way for you so that you reach your destination no matter what. It’s the things we think we need the most that hold us back.